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Some like it big

Horny males turn heads and roll eyes whenever she walks by their side and within their sight, displaying her generous backside. While she moves herself slowly, back straight, and head up, their dirty minds are racing, craving for her generous bust and outrageously curvy and swinging hips . Yes African beauty queen, it is you I am describing. The hidden or declared fantasy of every man from Casablanca to Cape Town and Asmara  to Praia. Your figure depicts perfectly the voluptuous African woman before the “DIET”. Who told you healthy equals to skinny?  But in spite of all the warnings, you persisted even after you reached your ideal weight. Day after day, your feminine attributes started vanishing, leaving your man with a bitter taste of nostalgia   remembering when he would tease you  with a desire filled « Darling u are just my size » .

What happened to you? Were you sick? Are the questions you get day and night from the majority of the men. Your obsession of becoming the new « slenderness » icon of your town has failed & vanished as surely as your bouncy booty and your juicy body. One relief though: All your girl friends still envy you .Nevertheless you dislike the way your Man glances at Femi’s sexy body. Those are the moments when you really wonder “Why? Why? Why did I have to lose all that weight?” It is not as if you were attracted to European men – they seem to enjoy skinny girls- or if you lived anywhere above the Mediterranean Sea. The fact of the matter is that you live right here in Dakar, Lagos, Libreville or Douala. Kingdoms of males worshipping fleshy bodies and abhorring   bony figures.

Honestly speaking, did you have to shed all these kilos/pounds? The mirror reflects the image of a lady with high cheekbones with more bones than cheeks. Chaley! Is that really you? But the worst part being at night when his soft palms caress your body in search for your lost attributes of African feminity. His gestures are loudly complaining every time he is by your side. You can guess it even though he doesn’t say it “Darling your bones are hurting me. His eyes are begging you “Darling please get your body back” .His whole being begging to feel your Body.

Guilty feelings. Why did I want to look like a top model when am just a real woman, living in a real world full of real men? So your fulfilled fantasy of a skinny you has slowly turned into a nightmare? It feels like a part of your womanhood fled with some kilos/pounds. Sorry Girl. Just get back to your good old rice, pounded yam & soup diet. Allow me to laugh out loud! Sorry Laugh Wan Kill me! It will fit back right in your hips. How do you position yourself between the paradox where all your dresses love you, your friends envy your new shape but your African King  just wants your old self back. « Darling who told you to lose so much weight? »

 That little voice inside of you whispers to your ego: If only I had known. Despising that Ego who wanted a thinner you, parading in tight little dresses. Live & Learn Mam! Next time remember that life is not your favorite glossy magazine and some (I am afraid to say many)  like it Big down here in Africa!
2011©Naboulove

Affirm Your Sexiness

What makes likes of Genevieve Nnaji, Beyonce Knowles, Iman and even the ordinary next door girl  look sexy in the eyes of the world? Is it their looks, the way they dress, they perfect body or a whole? Be reassured ladies, sexy has nothing to do with perfect beauty and doesn’t relate to being dressed in mini skirt with half of your boobs coming out of your top .You envy that colleague of yours because men at work follow her with their eyes every time she is around. And she is not the epitome of beauty she is neither slim nor have half of her body in sight! Being sexy is in the way you talk , walk, smile, glance. It is an attitude that you can acquire and develop. So don’t give up and continue reading!
By Observing, watching, discussing and asking around, I have compiled the following guideline that might help you reveal the sexiness in you:
1-Carry yourself with confidence, feel like Miss Universe when you walk, breathe in and forget about the fact that you are short, overweight or not as pretty as your sister. Just feel good inside, because you are yourself  and nobody  can take that away from you. Confidence – I didn’t say arrogance- is a head turner and will make you hot, whereas arrogance will make you cheap even if you are indeed Miss Universe.
2-Work on your posture Madam! Keep your back straight, your tummy in, your head up. No matter what hold on to your posture.
3-Smile inside and bring it on your face. I didn’t say laugh out loud. A heartfelt, sincere ,slightly naughty smile is attractive and brings out your charisma.
4-Cultivate the way you look at people. Work on your magnetic glance by making subtle eye contact and keeping a part of your mystery. Your eyes must be the most expressive part of your body without saying it all. Send mixed messages. Even if u r not into make-up, put khol or eyeliner and mascara to create and emphasize an enigmatic you.
5-Have a style of your own, Choose bright  and sexy colors like pink and red – they always compliment dark complexion- and always keep it as simple as possible –over accessorizing you might end up looking like a Christmas tree-. Make sure you have a hairstyle that suits you and when you get dressed don’t wear anything that doesn’t work with your body figure! sexy is not about being half naked so don’t be vulgar. Remember it’s about style, not fashion.
6-Wear beautiful lingerie to feel sexy for yourself. Whether you are into lace, silk or cotton, indulge yourself with the best just to please your body. It will make a huge difference in the way you feel.
7-wearing a ton of make-up and looking like a Picasso painting is everything but sexy. Apart from your eyes, your lips are essential to your sexiness. Choose a color that goes with your complexion and invest in a gloss that will always keep them inviting. Impeccably manicured nails as well as a flawless skin will add a lot to your sex appeal.
8-Don’t be to available and avoid the African spot lights. You are not a star so don’t behave like one and avoid being the one who doesn’t miss out a party. Cultivate the mystery around your whereabouts and like everything rare increase your market value.*Wink
9-Improve your personality: be real, genuinely helpful, caring ,polite and just friendly enough with everyone around without overdoing it. A nice woman is so sexy to be with.

10- Cease every opportunity to unleash your feminity. Dare to be a woman who needs and seeks assistance and help from others. Revealing your fragility,  will attract many super heroes around ready to come rescue you or help you.
11-Choose a fragrance that suits you. A classic I don’t need to develop.
12-Watch yourself in a mirror and affirm : “I am sexy “. If you are not convinced , who could you convince?

13- Reverse all the negative image you had of yourself: replace I am fat with I am voluptuous, I am short by I am delicate and so on… I am sure you feel better already. If you think your lips are big or your nose is ugly, think about them as winning features that will add sex appeal as long as you learn to love them.

14-Enough said, go out and start now and check all those males eyeing at your sexy self.

« Be empowered because you are powerful »

©Naboulove

Sexy New Year Resolutions…by NabouLove

It’s the new year so I thought of some sexy resolutions for the Naboulovers™..

1-Learn how to say I love you in new sexy languages: French “je t’aime”, Spanish “Te Quiero”, Italian “Ti Amo” . Or even African languages Mbife (Bambara) ,Na ku penda (Swahili), Na Lingui Yo (Lingala) Mi Yidima (Fulani).. And look at him straight in the eyes & tell him how much you love him.

2-Train yourself to a luscious African Belly /Booty Dance: Mapouka (Côte d’Ivoire), Ventilateur (Senegal), Mutuashi (Congo) or else and do it alone to develop your sensuality.

3-Be a Drianke to your Man. there is no shame in being a nice, caring & loving woman.

4-Don’t stay in a painful relationship, the only person you are hurting is yourself so move on! There is somebody out there for you, yes there is..

5-Take care of your body : massage, exercise, rub your skin generously with Shea Butter, Argan oil, bleach your teeth, loose or gain weight. Try a new exciting fragrance that will leave a trail everywhere you go.

6-Improve your style, be sexy, elegant & classy not vulgar. Remember too much sexy = Vulgar. A smile, the way you look at him, your eyes, the way you walk as well as your gesture are serious seduction tools. Use them..

7-Be open to your man’s need & do your best to fulfill them. Experience new dishes from other African countries, or change your way of seasoning your food. Spice it up with ginger, red pepper, muscade, cinnamon. Excite his taste…

8-Invest in Sexy accessories: erotic movies, erotic books, lace & lather…be hot in the bedroom. Don’t be ashamed to study, innovate & improve in bed…

9-Look at yourself naked in the mirror & repeat after me: “I am a sexy , hot, attractive , irresistible , charismatic & Confident Woman”. Smile & kiss yourself in the mirror. Wave at yourself & say loudly: Hello Beautiful « your name »…& blow a kiss . walk with confidence

10- Stick to these resolutions from Jan to December & KEEP ON reading Naboulove™ for more on African sexy secrets™.

Les conseils de Nafytoo…

Source : Icône/xalima

nafytoo22Le 14 février, la Saint Valentin, la fête de l’amour, est le jour où tous les amoureux prennent conscience de l’importance de leurs sentiments. Aussi, pour ferrer son « plus-que-fort » un tel jour et lui offrir un cadeau digne du génie de la femme sénégalaise, Nafytoo vous plonge dans les abysses des secrets d’alcôves. Découvrez ces merveilles édéniques de la séduction ! Thiouraye : Beaucoup d’hommes prétendent ne pas aimer l’encens. En réalité, ce qui les incommode, c’est la fumée qui se dégage de l’encensoir. Aussi, pour éviter d’enfumer votre chambre et prendre ainsi le risque de le voir déserter les lieux, la mine renfrognée et la libido à néant, évitez de déposer l’encens directement sur les charbons ardents. Il est préférable de mettre deux à quatre cuillères à soupe de cendre sur une partie des charbons rougis, de les tasser avec le dos de la cuillère, avant d’y déposer délicatement votre encens en prenant soin de ne pas prendre du liquide, car c’est ce qui favorise l’apparition de la fumée. Autre possibilité : mettre une cuillère à soupe sur la cendre chaude, recouvrir celle-ci d’un lit de cendres et y déposer l’encens. Les effluves se dégageront progressivement pour votre plus grand bonheur à tous les deux.

MASSAGE : Offrez-lui un massage inoubliable. Actuellement, le massage dans les instituts est très en vogue au Sénégal. Les couples y vont parfois ensemble pour s’abandonner entre les mains d’une experte qui saura dénouer les nœuds de leur corps fatigué, mais aussi les détendre en leur procurant du bien-être. Cela dit, sachez que les mains de l’être aimé sur notre corps ne remplaceront jamais les techniques de massage les plus pointues. Conseils judicieux : éteignez les lampes et disposez quelques bougies pour l’ambiance, puis mettez une musique douce en sourdine. Ensuite, versez quelques gouttes d’une huile de massage parfumée dans vos mains et frottez vos paumes l’une contre l’autre avant de masser votre douce moitié. N’oubliez surtout pas de ceindre vos reins avec le petit pagne qu’il préfère et faites passer tout votre amour dans vos mains en lui parlant d’une voix très douce.

TATOUAGE TEMPORAIRE : Flattez-le et montrez lui à quel point vous tenez à lui en tatouant son nom dans un dessin niché de préférence sur une partie de votre corps inaccessible aux regards extérieurs. De cette manière, il saura que ce message lui est exclusivement réservé. Les hommes n’aiment pas que les autres puissent profiter, ne serait-ce que par le regard, de ce qu’ils considèrent comme étant leur propriété exclusive.

LINGERIE : Usez d’artifices dignes d’une star pour l’événement ; aussi, pourquoi ne pas mettre deux lingeries (occidentale et africaine) pour l’occasion ? Commencez par vous glisser dans une nuisette sexy, enfilez des chaussures à talons (aiguilles de préférence), mettez votre bouche en valeur avec un beau rouge à lèvres, rendez vos lèvres pulpeuses en usant avec modération d’un gloss brillant, sans oublier de faire scintiller votre peau d’une huile parfumée et gourmande. Ultime conseil : avant de vous abandonner dans les bras de Morphée, changez-vous en douce et mettez l’arsenal sénégalais : petit pagne ajouré ou crocheté, perles aux couleurs chatoyantes qui tinteront joliment à chaque mouvement… Versez quelques gouttes de « lalalé » (parfum oriental) entre vos deux oreillers et mettez-en aussi derrière vos oreilles. Résultats garantis. Votre homme se demandera avec ravissement d’où viennent ces effluves envoûtantes et sera enchanté d’avoir une chérie aussi raffinée et experte en matière de séduction.nafytooportrait