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And the winner is:…. the MAN

How many of us have been  (or are ) in unhealthy relaotionships knowingly? Me, you, her, Us… We are just so human, sensitive to sweet words, romance & filled with dreams of the prince charming. How many times did you expect to see a change in the situation where Mr Man will either leave the other woman (be it the mistress or the wife) or have the guts to be an official Polygamists (at least he is honest & true to himself). How long have you been waiting? How many nights did you cry? Until you realize that nothing is gonna change unless you change your expectations, your perception or you change MAN. Period. Somme dreams come true but sometimes not until you make the right move. So instead of bitsching on the other woman (women), take a close look at that MAN , you have been loving genuinely  hoping for a better tomorrow & take a decision. There are only 2 guilty people here: YOU & HIM. You because you have a choice. & Him because he doesn’t have the courage to choose. So give a break to the sister (you don’t even know her) , who is avictim like you & take charge of your life. Don’t be the fool who sends anonymous emails, or calls to throw your venom to an innocent woman. Be the Lady who either accepts the situation quietly (no bitching  allowed then, just live with it) or you walk away heads up knowing that there is a bright future ahead of you. And Mr Winner will shift to being the loser he really is.

I see so many women insulting & hating each other because of Losers who don’t deserve one /tenth of their love . So my call to my sisters is mind your own business or GO. No man is worth 2  women to hate each other, in the name of « LOVE ».

copyright  Naboulove 2010

Fourty & Fabulous…

 I never thought I would be feel so good, so fulfilled & soo happy at fourty . Even though I still have so much to do & learn . A special thank you to all my friends for their Love.  Enjoy each second of it & take care of your body, soul & spirit. Smile as much as you can, dance a lot , eat a lot of fruit & veggies. USE ANTI AGING CREAM… LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL, but remember the best cream ever is a positive mind & a lot of LOVE to give.

xoxo

BYE BYE MAMA AFRIKA…

Monday, November 10, 2008

Who is going to dry my tears when i listen to « Malaika »?

Who is going to please my heart when i hear « Pata Pata »?

 Mama Afrika you were a star, a mother, an activist,

and overall a freedom fighter.

I remember the first time we met,years ago ,

 we went to keur Samba with a common friend and Nina Simone..

.I was so impressed that i could hardly talk,

 Just emotions moving me upside down…

OOOh Mama the loss is great to Afrika. ©

.Remember Manhattan Brothers and your tour to America

 When most of the continent was still colonized

 When they took away ur citizenship

 Because you were claiming for a fair South Africa,

 You found refuge in America Mama Afrika

 Endorsing the cause of the your beloved Stokely Carmichael

Once again you realized

America was not the freedom Nation it was claiming to be.

Once again on the road back to your roots

 Mama Afrika you became a Guinean,

A sister Nation but not your homeland.

.Mama you gave us a Grammy

 In the late fifties putting African Music

On the map of the world music.

Thanks Mama Afrika

.It has never been easy to be a woman of beliefs,

 Torn between the love of your land

 And the hatred for what they had called « Apartheid »..

Mama Afrika you have wandered from one nation to another

Denied the right to go back home,

As a mother you have suffered the loss of your daughter

…But in spite of all the mourning  and suffering

You went through your life,

 You always had your head up,

 Your voice ready to sing a song of freedom.

I know your greatest Joy was the day apartheid was banned

 ….FREE at LAST.

Rest in Peace MAMA AFRIKA…

You are unforgettable.

Nakupenda Yo

©Nabou Fall 2008

Inspiring Quotes for my sisters

« Far away there in the sunshine are my highest aspirations. I may not reach them, but I can look up and see their beauty, believe in them, and try to follow where they lead. »
—Louisa May Alcott

« Cautious, careful people always casting about to preserve their reputation or social standards never can bring about reform. Those who are really in earnest are willing to be anything or nothing in the world’s estimation, and publicly and privately, in season and out, avow their sympathies with despised ideas and their advocates, and bear the consequences. »
—Susan B. Anthony

« The day will come when men will recognize woman as his peer, not only at the fireside, but in councils of the nation. Then, and not until then, will there be the perfect comradeship, the ideal union between the sexes that shall result in the highest development of the race. »
—Susan B. Anthony

« We ask justice, we ask equality, we ask that all the civil and political rights that belong to citizens of the United States, be guaranteed to us and our daughters forever. »
—Susan B. Anthony, Declaration of Rights for Women, July 1876

« There never will be complete equality until women themselves help to make laws and elect lawmakers. »
—Susan B. Anthony

« In passing, also, I would like to say that the first time Adam had a chance he laid the blame on a woman. »
—Nancy Astor
(British Politician)

« For what is done or learned by one class of women becomes, by virtue of their common womanhood, the property of all women. »
—Elizabeth Blackwell

(The first woman in the U.S. to become a physician)

« We stand now where two roads diverge. But unlike the roads in Robert Frost’s familiar poem, they are not equally fair. The road we have long been traveling is deceptively easy, a smooth superhighway on which we progress with great speed, but at its end lies disaster. The other fork of the road—the one « less traveled by »—offers our last, our only chance to reach a destination that assures the preservation of the earth. »
— Rachel Carson

« The family unit plays a critical role in our society and in the training of the generation to come. »
—Sandra Day O’Connor

« We’ve chosen the path to equality, don’t let them turn us around. »
—Geraldine Ferraro
(The first woman to be nominated as Vice President of the United States)

« You can do one of two things; just shut up, which is something I don’t find easy, or learn an awful lot very fast, which is what I tried to do. »
—Jane Fonda

  « If you have knowledge, let others light their candles in it. »
— Margaret Fuller

  « My address is like my shoes. It travels with me. I abide where there is a fight against wrong. »
—Mother Jones

« Don’t compromise yourself. You are all you’ve got. »
—Janis Joplin

« Many persons have a wrong idea of what constitutes true happiness. It is not attained through self-gratification but through fidelity to a worthy purpose. »
—Helen Keller

« If we are to achieve a richer culture, rich in contrasting values, we must recognize the whole gamut of human potentialities, and so weave a less arbitrary social fabric, one in which each diverse gift will find a fitting place. »
—Margaret Mead

« Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has. » —Margaret Mead

« I can honestly say that I was never affected by the question of the success of an undertaking. If I felt it was the right thing to do, I was for it regardless of the possible outcome. »
—Golda Meir

« Something which we think is impossible now is not impossible in another decade. »
Constance Baker Motley
(First Black Woman in the U.S. to become a Federal Judge)

« I think the key is for women not to set any limits. »
— Martina Navratilova

« People think at the end of the day that a man is the only answer [to fulfillment]. Actually a job is better for me. »
—Princess Diana

« Remember no one can make you feel inferior without your consent. »
—Eleanor Roosevelt

« I think it’s very important for everyone in America to realize right now the state of our country, not just on this issue but on a lot of issues, that it is time to get active again. People have just sat back and just sort of said, oh, let somebody else do it for a long time, and we’re seeing what’s happening to the country, even freedom of speech. It’s not going well. So I think this is a real opportunity for people to see, yes, if you do get out and you do get active, there are other people there. You just have to seek them out. »
—Mary Steenburgen

« In my heart, I think a woman has two choices: either she’s a feminist or a masochist. »
—Gloria Steinem

« The first problem for all of us, men and women, is not to learn, but to unlearn. »
—Gloria Steinem

« I am also very proud to be a liberal. Why is that so terrible these days? The liberals were liberators—they fought slavery, fought for women to have the right to vote, fought against Hitler, Stalin, fought to end segregation, fought to end apartheid. Liberals put an end to child labor and they gave us the five day work week! What’s to be ashamed of? »
—Barbra Streisand

« We still live in a world in which a significant fraction of people, including women, believe that a woman belongs and wants to belong exclusively in the home. »
—Rosalyn Sussman
(Nobel Prize-winning medical physicist)

« You can tell how high a society is by how much of its garbage is recycled. »
—Dhyani Ywahoo
(Native American)

« It’s so clear that you have to cherish everyone. I think that’s what I get from these older black women, that every soul is to be cherished, that every flower is to bloom. »
—Alice Walker

« I’ve learned from experience that the greater part of our happiness or misery depends on our dispositions and not on our circumstances. »
—Martha Washington

« As a woman I have no country. As a woman my country is the whole world. »
—Virginia Woolf