How many of us have been (or are ) in unhealthy relaotionships knowingly? Me, you, her, Us… We are just so human, sensitive to sweet words, romance & filled with dreams of the prince charming. How many times did you expect to see a change in the situation where Mr Man will either leave the other woman (be it the mistress or the wife) or have the guts to be an official Polygamists (at least he is honest & true to himself). How long have you been waiting? How many nights did you cry? Until you realize that nothing is gonna change unless you change your expectations, your perception or you change MAN. Period. Somme dreams come true but sometimes not until you make the right move. So instead of bitsching on the other woman (women), take a close look at that MAN , you have been loving genuinely hoping for a better tomorrow & take a decision. There are only 2 guilty people here: YOU & HIM. You because you have a choice. & Him because he doesn’t have the courage to choose. So give a break to the sister (you don’t even know her) , who is avictim like you & take charge of your life. Don’t be the fool who sends anonymous emails, or calls to throw your venom to an innocent woman. Be the Lady who either accepts the situation quietly (no bitching allowed then, just live with it) or you walk away heads up knowing that there is a bright future ahead of you. And Mr Winner will shift to being the loser he really is.
I see so many women insulting & hating each other because of Losers who don’t deserve one /tenth of their love . So my call to my sisters is mind your own business or GO. No man is worth 2 women to hate each other, in the name of « LOVE ».
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