This is a tough one, for sure. I can see you smile while reading the title & thinking aloud WHAT THE F.? Being a teenager I remember my mother telling me » Men will try to sleep with you regardless of who they are, you have the choice to say « NO » . I didn’t really get it then, until I came across some of my parents close friends who were hitting on me. It became clear that they had no respect for my parents or themselves & I started avoiding some of them without telling my Mum why. Love is beautiful , love is fearless , love makes you feel stronger. But obviously what I was running away from was lust.
What differentiates us human from animals are the rules & boundaries set by the society. And no matter how free & open one can be, I believe in Taboo Men, those you should never have an affair or a relationship with. STOP the bullshit of » I am in love », Unless you are ready to enter a self destructive circle & bear the consequences. So Life is not a soap opera & being addicted to one of them for the last Mmm let’s say 20 something years, really is an inspiration of what not to do. But these Taboos don’t apply only to women but also to men. So let’s browse & have a look:
Taboo 1: YOUR INLAWS i.e. your sister’s husband or your brother’s wife (& we all know that bros & sisters means a lot of people in Africa). I would even push to say wife’s mum (yes Musa even if she is a Cougar ) or your Husband’s Dad (even if he is a Head of state ), stop sign is written all over their faces so don’t even try. And all affiliates to these latters are concerned so don’t pretend.LOOL.
Taboo 2: YOUR STEP relatives , there is Sister in steo-sister & there is brother in step-brother , as well as Mum & Dad in step-Mum & step-Dad so shift your fantasies away.
Taboo 3: YOUR MARRIED colleagues .Hell no! Unless single & ready to commit. The world is full of men & women willing to have a one night stand so choose yours outside of your office, unless you want to experience a nightmare.. In this category i also include teachers, students, etc. The world is big enough so save us the drama.
Taboo4: YOUR FRIENDS’ wife or husband. Lord don’t you have limits. No,no,no,no…No comment. Life is not a Soap Opera. It’s real & you shall reap what you sow.
Taboo 5: THE WICKED EX, he/she was wicked then, trust me people don’t change ovenight so move on or cross the road. Don’t fall in that trap again just because you fee lonely.
Did I forget Anyone here? I am sure you must be thinking about the married man/woman but that you already know, so you don’t need a reminder. But it’s »better » ( dont get me wrong i dont advocate that) to deal with a random « married » person than with any of those falling in the Taboo list. So Ladies & Gentlemen you are not Brooke & Ridge so Behave yourselves.
Until next time. Xoxo.
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